I didn't think it would be so hard to keep my calendar up to date and correct across multiple devices, but it is proving to be a bear of a time. I know I'm not the only one doing this, so here is what I want to do:

I have an iMac that is my main computer. It is where I work most of the time. I have a calendar on it.
I have a Macbook Pro that I am using more and more since I'm on the road and working out of the home.
I want to keep the calendars on both of these in sync. I thought MobileMe was suppose to do this, but after a solid week I can confirm that it is not doing it properly. When I add an event to one calendar I want it to show up on the other. Both ways.

As a third thing, I'd like to update a Google Calendar every so often. This is so my wife can see my calendar to know what I'm up to and when I will be away.

I was using Spanning Sync to do the last part, but it only seems to work one way. Meaning that if something got added directly to my Google Calendar it did not come down to my computer.

There has GOT to be a solution out there that works for this. Some people suggested Busy Sync but that doesn't seem to do it either.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.